How much a female can be a part of males life as “best friend” ?
I get to hear the bollywood mantra that “a girl and a boy can never be only friends” !!..not in all the cases ! Agree that not only best friends, but much more to it than just falling in love.
One such case infront of my eyes. Relationship took too many turns and the outcome was a shock !
They were colleagues, became good friends and then best friends in a very short span of time. He was younger to her and was more attached to her. For smaller to smaller needs, there was a dependency on each other. It was surely not LOVE ! She used to care for him along with his parents. She was well accepted by his parents also as a daughter.
Once he saw a baby picture on her desktop and did a sketch of it to gift her. She was in tears when she received his first gift. The relationship was so deep that she used to sense if he is in trouble. She was everything to him, a sister, a friend, a guide, a mother and a mentor as well. Many talents he had which he himself didn’t know, was recognized and appreciated by her. He was so close to her that he never wanted to have more friends. It was an open relationship known to all. One strange thing which always happened was, she used to dream about him as he is in trouble and asking for her help. Second she always wanted to be with him on his birthday, which never happened. So she always bought two gifts – one of his choice, and one hers.
Everything should come to an end.
He left the job and joined another company. This was just a physical distance but gradually distance increased. His parents were looking for alliances for him and he had to travel to US on his work. She was in total dark not knowing what is actually happening. Either he was busy or ignoring, but they lost touch for months. One fine day, she herself went to his parents place to know if they are doing good bcos son was in US. It was a bad day – she saw him sitting inside along with his parents. She was shocked that he never told her also when he came back from US. Later his mother also told that he got operated on appendicitis and his marriage was fixed !!!!! She was not aware on any of these. Obvious she was hurt for the fact atleast he could have informed on this health. It was a bad hit on “Best Friend” relation. She was angry on all the three and came out of the house. Surprisingly, he also didn’t try to call her back.
Wedding went well, but “best friends” never met. Almost an year, they didn’t talk…both were expecting other to give up and come back. But she used to get same old dreams like he is in trouble and he needs her help. She tried contacting his parents to know his whereabouts. He was happy in his married life, but she was hurt, burnt and suffered….
New year day..
She tried, but never succeeded in forgetting him for one year. So she thought of calling him to patch up again, by ignoring whatever happened. For various reasons, he didn’t feel like patching up again. She felt the heat of the rejection but couldn’t do much. But it was a jerk for her that he will never be back in her life.
Twist in the story…
One more woman in her workplace, devotee of Ravishankar Guruji, has excelled in deep meditation and spiritual power since 10 years, cracked a mystery of their life. She told everything what she feels for him and why !
Why she had suffered a lot because of him, why she used to do extra care, why she did fasting when he was not able to clear MBA how she was able to sense whenever he was in trouble, why she just can’t hate him or forget him, why every second her mind thinks about him, why she felt all his pains…
He was an abnormal child in his past life who died as baby and SHE was his MOTHER in her past life !!!
She was still carrying those cosmic rays in the present life, and could not come out of the motherly affection in the next life also. He didn’t realize all these and never bothered also.
Sad part of her is…. she knows he is in trouble now also and the reason for the problems, but helpless to do anything for him because of the distance he is maintaining. Her mother heart is not able to tolerate this, but nothing can be done apart from wishing good for him.
That friend/mother is still waiting anxiously for her best friend/child to come back to her. This past life mystery will haunt her through-out of her life.
Best friend of this life was a child in past life !!!
